So this week was a little bit slower... but a lot of good stuff happened...Sorry I didn't really think about what I was going to say before hand. I'm usually better about that. But off the top of my head:
First off, we went to the zoo!! As I may or may not have mentioned before, we do service each week in a nearby park called Prospect Park. The park was designed by the same people who built Central Park, so it has a similar feel to it. Beautiful place...Anyway...inside Prospect Park there is a zoo, and to thank us for the many years of service the missionaries here in Brooklyn have rendered to the Park they let us in for FREE! Wooo! Super fun. So I'll include a couple pictures from that. (Tara didn't send any pictures of the Zoo.:()
So I've been thinking about something a lot. And that thing is...Sisters. A sister is a really unique person. I think everyone can agree that a relationship with a sister is pretty special. As we were riding the train on the way to an appointment the other night we were sitting across from a mom and two daughters. The sisters were very close in age and they had matching clothes on. One had her head resting on the mom's shoulder and the other rested her head on the shoulder of her sister. All were sleeping peacefully. (Well, as peacefully as you can sleep on the Q train. Haha.)
It got me thinking about how much a missed my Sister. How appropriate that her Birthday is tomorrow (Tuesday, Sept. 24th)! So... Jaycee my dear...I would like to dedicate this email to you.
From the beginning of my time here on earth it's always been you and me. "Where did the time go??" People always ask...But I think we know where the time went. The time went to countless hours playing dress up. The time went to watching Beauty and the Beast and Lion King over and over again. Time went to many hours braiding hair and talking about boys. And well, as much as we hate to admit it...it went to many hours of fighting about pretty dumb stuff. Haha.
So where did the time go? It went to US. Time together is what made us the people we are today and it created the relationship we have now. Sometimes though, I like to think about the earlier stages of our relationship. You know, before time actually existed here on Earth. How was it back then? I like to think we were best friends in the premortal life. Or maybe we weren't. Maybe Heavenly Father just knew you were the only person who could put up with me for eternity. Haha. Regardless I think Heavenly Father put us together for a very special reason. I may never figure out for certain the REAL reasons. BUT I have my suspicions. I know one thing for sure...You saved my life in a sense. Because of your expereiences you helped me see what paths I needed to take. I can truthfully say that I would not be where I am right now without your help. So, thank you for all the time you've spent with me. And I thank our Heavenly Father for allowing me to continue the relationship we began before this life.
Here's to families! Here's to sisters! Here's to another day in the life! AND here's to Birthdays! Happy 22nd Birthday Jaycee!
Keep on keepin' on everyone! Pray for a missionary experience this week, and I promise you it will be given...and when it is, take it!
Love you all!
Sister Franklin
Monday, September 23, 2013
Monday, September 16, 2013
Jamaica and The Ultimate Lesson
So... I'll just start by saying. This
week was INCREDIBLE. I know I say that all the time. But I REALLY REALLY mean
it this time. Haha.
I'll start with saying our Bishop is just amazing. Simply amazing! So is his wife. The Herrera's moved into our ward just before I got here and look, now he's the bishop. The Lord sends ya where he needs ya. That's for sure. I've seen a lot of changes in the ward since he's become the bishop. He is so kind and so loving. He encourages us missionaries so much and thanks us for our hard work. He definitely motivates me to work harder and to be diligent in serving this ward that our good bishop cares for so much. Sister Jorgensen and I went and taught with his wife on Tuesday and it was such pleasure! She is such a great example of "acting well thy part" to the sister's in our ward and to us missionaries. In case there's any question, I'm referring to the talk "We Are Daughters of our Heavenly Father" by Sister Dalton. If you haven't read it recently... GO READ IT! Love that one.
I'll start with saying our Bishop is just amazing. Simply amazing! So is his wife. The Herrera's moved into our ward just before I got here and look, now he's the bishop. The Lord sends ya where he needs ya. That's for sure. I've seen a lot of changes in the ward since he's become the bishop. He is so kind and so loving. He encourages us missionaries so much and thanks us for our hard work. He definitely motivates me to work harder and to be diligent in serving this ward that our good bishop cares for so much. Sister Jorgensen and I went and taught with his wife on Tuesday and it was such pleasure! She is such a great example of "acting well thy part" to the sister's in our ward and to us missionaries. In case there's any question, I'm referring to the talk "We Are Daughters of our Heavenly Father" by Sister Dalton. If you haven't read it recently... GO READ IT! Love that one.
Hopefully I can do justice to this next
story via email... it's a little complex and there's a lot to it... so I pray
it makes at least a little sense.
I was asked to participate in a public
concert that the missionaries in Zone 6 were putting on. Along with Sister
Blosil (from the Midwood English district) and Elder Goates and Elder Erickson
from my district. (In case anyone wants to know... Sister Blosil is pretty much
famous for her beautiful voice, Elder Goates is a vocal performance major from
BYU and has got PIPES, and Elder Erickson may or may not be the best, or
next to the best, piano player I've ever met..,Sooooo not really sure
why they invited me, but I'm sure lucky they did.) (Sister Freeze and
Sister Jorgensen stayed here in Midwood while Sister Blosil and I along with
the Elders spent Saturday in Jamaica, Queens singing/performing and inviting
people to church.
It was a pretty cool experience. We were in kind of a big... like, mall? Thing? I don't know... regardless, we sang near a food court where a lot of people could gather and listen should they choose to. A LOT of people came and expressed interest in learning more and there were even a few people who were taught lessons right there in the food court. How cool is that!?
It was a pretty cool experience. We were in kind of a big... like, mall? Thing? I don't know... regardless, we sang near a food court where a lot of people could gather and listen should they choose to. A LOT of people came and expressed interest in learning more and there were even a few people who were taught lessons right there in the food court. How cool is that!?
After the concert was finished, we
planned to just head home to Brooklyn. BUT the Lord had a much better plan in
mind for us.
As we were just about to head down into the Subway station to get home, a man dressed in Muslim attire stopped us and said, "You guys are Mormons, right?" "Yes, we sure are!" was our reply... Now, at this point in time I hate to admit I was trying to think of all the many ways you can say "Sir, we really don't have time to argue but thank you for your opinion and your time" and which version of that phrase would be best for the situation. I immediately repented when he responded to our confirmation that we were indeed Mormons... He said, "Would you mind teaching me about what you believe? There are so many unreliable, hateful sources out there I simply can't trust what I see on the internet or read in a book. The only people who can accurately tell you about the beliefs of another religion are those who practice THAT religion." (You have to understand...this RARELY happens...usually people who approach us like that only want to argue or mock us. So this was a HUGE blessing, and well, a shock.) We all felt good about this, and said we'd be happy to teach him about our beliefs. He then said, "Hey, actually, would you mind coming back to the school and teaching me and my fellow scholars as well." UMM, CLARO QUE SÍ. It's not everyday you get invited to a Muslim school to teach Latter-Day Saint doctrine.
As we were just about to head down into the Subway station to get home, a man dressed in Muslim attire stopped us and said, "You guys are Mormons, right?" "Yes, we sure are!" was our reply... Now, at this point in time I hate to admit I was trying to think of all the many ways you can say "Sir, we really don't have time to argue but thank you for your opinion and your time" and which version of that phrase would be best for the situation. I immediately repented when he responded to our confirmation that we were indeed Mormons... He said, "Would you mind teaching me about what you believe? There are so many unreliable, hateful sources out there I simply can't trust what I see on the internet or read in a book. The only people who can accurately tell you about the beliefs of another religion are those who practice THAT religion." (You have to understand...this RARELY happens...usually people who approach us like that only want to argue or mock us. So this was a HUGE blessing, and well, a shock.) We all felt good about this, and said we'd be happy to teach him about our beliefs. He then said, "Hey, actually, would you mind coming back to the school and teaching me and my fellow scholars as well." UMM, CLARO QUE SÍ. It's not everyday you get invited to a Muslim school to teach Latter-Day Saint doctrine.
So we went down the block to the
school. We removed our shoes before entering... (always super cool to
participate in the traditions of other faiths and cultures, I LOVE IT!) and
were seated in the office of the dean of the school. He came back with the Dean
of the school. He kindly greeted us and offered us coffee or tea...
And so it began! Haha...We taught them ALL of the missionary lessons including,
The Restoration, The Plan of Salvation, The Gospel of Jesus Christ, The Word of
Wisdom, The Law of Chastity, Tithing, Ordinances and temple work, and
Missionary Work!
They taught us about the Muslim beliefs and we learned LOTS about the history of Islam. I discovered that they actually have extremely similar doctrine to us. Interesting right? I had no idea. They believe in a pre-existence and an after-life just as we do... and they have very similar views on family and chastity. However, the extreme difference between our religions is Jesus Christ. They are not Christian. They do not believe that Jesus was the son of God. They do believe he was a prophet and they love him very much, but they do not worship him in anyway or acknowledge him as a savior for mankind.
They taught us about the Muslim beliefs and we learned LOTS about the history of Islam. I discovered that they actually have extremely similar doctrine to us. Interesting right? I had no idea. They believe in a pre-existence and an after-life just as we do... and they have very similar views on family and chastity. However, the extreme difference between our religions is Jesus Christ. They are not Christian. They do not believe that Jesus was the son of God. They do believe he was a prophet and they love him very much, but they do not worship him in anyway or acknowledge him as a savior for mankind.
I thought about my relationship with my
Savior Jesus Christ and tried to imagine my life without that. It simply
couldn't be. I'm so grateful for my knowledge that Jesus did indeed suffer
every pain and affliction for all of us…he paid the price of our lives and
made it possible to receive a fullness of joy.
This experience was one of the most enlightening
and powerful experiences I've had in my life. I don't think I've ever had
a spiritual witness that God lives quite like that. It was such a unique
situation. It was truly a blessing to speak openly and freely about the
doctrine of Christ and have no fear of ridicule or disrespect.
Before we left, we gave them all the pamphlets we used to teach and gave them both a copy of The Book of Mormon. Adam, the one who stopped us on the street gave me his personal copy of the Koran. SO AWESOME, right? He marked the chapters that really changed his life. Interesting to note that Adam is from Puerto Rico. So we got to speak a little Español. And hey, now that I've gotten pretty good at this Spanish thing... I can learn Arabic. Wooo!
I think the greatest thing I took away from it was that God loves us. He truly does, and he allows us to experience what we need to in order to progress in our lives. I don't expect that either of those men will join the church anytime soon. And you know what, it's okay. Adam said to us, "There must have been some reason why God gave me the courage I needed to talk to you." And he's right. God does have his reasons. So whatever the reason, the four of us were meant to cross paths with those two great men that day.
We traveled back to Brooklyn and discussed what had happened. We all felt similar spiritual impressions and feelings. Love those missionaries we'll all remember that experience forever.
After an hour and twenty minutes on the train, we were home. and shortly after that.... TRANSFER CALLS.
Dun. Dun. Duuuuunn.
And well. I'm staying here in MIDWOOD! WITH SISTER JORGENSEN. First time transfers didn't just throw me a huge curve ball. Couldn't be happier. Sista. J and I are going to rock this.
Best week ever!
Hope everyone else had a great week too! Keep the faith!
Love,
Hermana Franklin
Before we left, we gave them all the pamphlets we used to teach and gave them both a copy of The Book of Mormon. Adam, the one who stopped us on the street gave me his personal copy of the Koran. SO AWESOME, right? He marked the chapters that really changed his life. Interesting to note that Adam is from Puerto Rico. So we got to speak a little Español. And hey, now that I've gotten pretty good at this Spanish thing... I can learn Arabic. Wooo!
I think the greatest thing I took away from it was that God loves us. He truly does, and he allows us to experience what we need to in order to progress in our lives. I don't expect that either of those men will join the church anytime soon. And you know what, it's okay. Adam said to us, "There must have been some reason why God gave me the courage I needed to talk to you." And he's right. God does have his reasons. So whatever the reason, the four of us were meant to cross paths with those two great men that day.
We traveled back to Brooklyn and discussed what had happened. We all felt similar spiritual impressions and feelings. Love those missionaries we'll all remember that experience forever.
After an hour and twenty minutes on the train, we were home. and shortly after that.... TRANSFER CALLS.
Dun. Dun. Duuuuunn.
And well. I'm staying here in MIDWOOD! WITH SISTER JORGENSEN. First time transfers didn't just throw me a huge curve ball. Couldn't be happier. Sista. J and I are going to rock this.
Best week ever!
Hope everyone else had a great week too! Keep the faith!
Love,
Hermana Franklin
Me in Prospect Park
The View from my apartment window.
So Ghetto but so super cool!
Sister Jorgensen and Me (SYD)
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Social Networking, Spiritual Gifts, And Sister Sydney Jorgensen
So... here's a
slightly crazy piece of information for the week....
Come October, I can
use Facebook for proselyting purposes... Whaaat? I'm not really sure how I feel
about this. :) I really loved the
idea about leaving all that social connection behind when I left. However,
I know the First Presidency and other people at church headquarters have
thought about this a lot and this has definitely been in the works for years...
So I'm sure great things will come of it. I just really don't love the prospect
of seeing everything going on back at home as of right now... sort
of feel like it will be more of a hindrance than help... Guess we'll find out
in October.
Ran into Jay and Lisa
Franklin yesterday...That was SO crazy. I mean, of all the millions of people
here in New York City! Haha. Guess they were in town for a Yankee's vs.
Redsox game... (Way to go SOX.) (Sorry New York, you'll never convert me in
that aspect. Haha.) Super awesome to see them and tell them all about my area
and the missionary work around here.
Something I've been
thinking about a lot this week is the concept of "spiritual gifts". I
was encouraged by Sister Freeze (a sister serving in the English ward) to write
down all the gifts of the spirit I've been given and all the talents I have.
Then to write down things I'd like to improve on and spiritual gifts and
talents I would like to develop more fully. I definitely recommend this
exercise to anyone and everyone! It's awesome.... here's why...
The word talent comes
from the Greek word talanton, meaning balance or weight, and refers to any
variety of weights of gold or silver and the value of such in terms of currency
in ancient cultures. Most of the seventy occurrences of the world
"talent" in the scriptures refer to money in this sense, including in
the parable of Jesus concerning the king who became the model of compassion by
forgiving one of his servants a debt of "ten thousand talents".
(Matthew 18: 24). However, in His other well-known "parable of the talents"
(Matthew 25), the Lord uses the metaphor to show that talents
can be more than just money... they're also gifts that we can use to achieve
worthwhile goals. In this sense talents are given to us to build the kingdom...
they do in fact come with covenant responsibility. When we serve the Lord with
all our heart, mind and strength (D&C 4:2) we can "stand blameless
before God" and bring "Salvation to our souls". (D&C 4:4)
Using our talents for the cause of Zion will bring joy, comfort and eternally
enduring blessings.
As I learned more
about what talents and gifts of the spirit actually ARE... I saw how I could
use the gifts I've been given to improve those things that I saw needed some
work in my life. The lord doesn't give us a task unless he has prepared a way
for us to accomplish it. And well…I found that I have been given many
tools/gifts/talents that will enable me to accomplish and achieve the goals
I've set for myself.
(If you'd like citation
of my sources...the scriptures, PMG, True to the Faith, and My Missionary Companion
scripture book. Haha. I highly encourage you to read the spiritual gifts
section of True to the Faith. Super great. )
Another gift I've
been given is my Companion Sister Jorgensen.
She is such an
inspiration to me. And I couldn't be more grateful to have her as my companion
right now. She's helped me learn a lot about myself in the last 6 weeks.
She is such a strong
woman. I don't know if she realizes it, but it's the truth.
She gave me a talk to
read this last week... Wow. She just knows exactly what I need, when I need it.
Ironically the talk she gave me mentioned how God has a very detailed plan for
my mission... the people I will serve and teach, the wards I will be placed in,
the areas I will be assigned to, my mission president and his wife, and of
course those who will serve as my companions. And I know 100% that this is
true. I know Sister Jorgensen was meant to be serving in this ward with me at
this point in our missions. Our companionship isn't perfect... it's not like
there weren't days this transfer that we could have been more
effective/diligent. BUT Sister Jorgensen always knows how to make things
better. It's awesome to see how our spiritual gifts and strengths really
compliment each other.
Man,
I pray we stay
together this upcoming transfer! (Only one week left of this transfer...
they're just FLYING. Kinda want time to just slow the heck down. Haha.)
Anyway... that's
about all I'd like to gab about today, hope everyone is well and dandy!
LOVE you!
Hermana Tara Franklin
Tuesday, September 3, 2013
D&C 135:3
This week was a
roller coaster to say the least.
Something I think I
should share that everyone would enjoy is a good "dog" story. I may
have mentioned this before but dogs are extremely common around here.
EVERYONE and their dog have a dog. (Why? I don't know.
I've never figured out the logic behind... "We live in a tiny apartment
that requires us to have our TV on our kitchen table and our bathroom also
serves as space for Christmas Decoration storage...So we should probably get a
dog." :) Whatever! Everyone's got one, regardless of how little
sense it makes.) Thus, we're used
to getting attacked by various kinds of dogs of all sizes when we come to
people's apartments...This week, however we had a fantastic encounter with a
pet RABBIT.
We were looking up a
less-active member in our ward when we found a MASSIVE pet bunny at the top of
the stairs. It was bigger than a lot of the dogs and cats that I've seen in
people's houses. He freaked us out pretty good. Haha. I don't
know how many of y'all have had a rabbit, the size of a small child, charge
you, but man it's scary. I think he thought he was a dog. After he
realized we came in peace he just kind of hopped
around us and pretty sure he would have wagged his tail if
rabbits did that. We named it Thumper. Never
did figure out its real name because the member who owns it wasn't home. Better
luck next week.
Another interesting
thing that happened to us was that I was stopped by a gentleman who asked me to
keep "my religion" out of his life and away from his family. He told
us that his sister was a lesbian and was happily married to a woman in
California. He also expressed his disgust with "my
religion" for their support of Proposition 8. He told me he could
never believe in a church where the men are called Elders and the women are
not. It was probably only a 30 second conversation. It makes me sad that
people misunderstand. This was one of those times where you feel pretty
helpless...and by defending yourself you would only make the situation worse.
So we had to just walk away. I truly feel bad that his family may have
been hurt by discrimination or hateful propaganda geared toward homosexuality
or sexism. But that's not "my religion". My religion doesn't promote discrimination or
hate. My religion isn't about exclusion. It's about inclusion. The good news of
the gospel of Christ is for EVERYBODY.
Also, saw my second
street fight this week. No knives this time. Haha. (Sorry mom, maybe I
shouldn't tell you these things till after I come home.)
Had Mangu for the
first time!! So good. For those of you who don't know. It's a Dominican dish...mashed plantains with onions and all kinds of good stuff in it.
My favorite highlight
of this week was that the youth in my ward went to youth conference. They got
to go upstate to The Sacred Grove and see Palmyra and all the Church History
sites along the way. (So jealous of them...) Many youth who attended haven't
come to church in years and Ashlynn our beautiful, wonderful 12-year-old
investigator went as well. They all came back just glowing. ALL of the young
women and young men got up and bore their testimonies of the Prophet Joseph
Smith during sacrament meeting. Several of them went into the Palmyra Temple
and got to do baptisms for the dead for the first time ever. Hearing about
their experiences just brought tears to my eyes and joy to my heart.
They all got me
thinking about my personal testimony of the Restoration and of Joseph Smith. I
remember talking with my district a little while ago about when we all knew the
church was true. Most of us said it was just a knowledge that came over time
based on countless experiences. But one experience that really stands
out and that I'll never forget was when I visited Carthage Jail with
my family about 7 years ago. I remember putting my hands up on the window from
which Joseph fell and I felt an overwhelming feeling. I remember feeling like
God truly knew me, and loved me. I knew in that moment that Joseph Smith was a
prophet and that he was called by God to restore the gospel.
Joseph Smith was
given a divine mission to bring God's true church to the earth once again. I am
so grateful that Joseph Smith completed his mission so that I could be here
today serving mine. D&C 135:3 says
"Joseph Smith the prophet and seer of the Lord, has done more, save Jesus
only, for the salvation of men in this world, than any other man that ever
lived in it." I feel nothing but indescribable gratitude for the many
blessings the restored gospel has brought to my life and to my family.
Joseph Smith himself said, "Now what do we hear in the gospel which we
have received? A voice of gladness! A voice of mercy from heaven; a voice of
truth from the earth; glad tidings from the dead; glad
tidings for the living; glad tidings of great joy."
I love being a
missionary!
Hope you all have a
great week! A shout out to my Aunt Kylee and Uncle
Scott and Cousin Ross... Congratulations on your new baby girl! She's
GORGEOUS!
Love,
Sister Tara
Franklin
Thumper -- Killer Rabbit
Monday, August 26, 2013
6 Months
Can you believe it? I sure can't.
I woke up
on the 20th and realized I was 1/3 through the 18 months I'll serve as a
missionary. Kinda panicked a little bit. This is it?? After 6 months,
this is where I'm at? I quickly decided I needed to do something to
change my attitude about this milestone. So I read my journal. Starting with the day I entered the MTC, I read 6 months worth of experiences and spiritual thoughts. Wow!
It was so incredible to reflect on the person I was when I left and see
how different I am now. I've sure learned a lot. And I've overcome a
lot.
I've kind of come up with a list... "10 of the greatest lessons I've learned in the last 6 months as a missionary."
1.) Charity is a gift. It is the greatest of all spiritual gifts. 1 Corinthians 13.... I truly am nothing without charity.
2.) Working with members is the greatest work I've done as a missionary. When you involve the members, miracles happen.
3.)
"Venir" is a Spanish word meaning "to come". It is grammatically
incorrect to use this verb as a command unless you are already at the
place you are telling some one to come to. I find this to be kind of
profound. I have definitely learned that you cannot convert someone
beyond your own conversion. In other words, you can not invite someone
else to "come unto Christ" unless you have already come unto Christ
yourself.
4.) Obedience brings blessings, EXACT obedience brings
miracles. Alma 57: 19-27 explains the story of the Stripling Warriors. I
LOVE verse 19. It explains it all. When you are obedient to the
commandments of God you are protected and you can walk confidently
before the Lord.
5.) As a missionary we tend to ask ourselves
questions... Like, "Am I inspired?" "Did I do that right?" "Are they
ready?" or "Do they like me?"
If I could go back to the
beginning of my mission I would live by the following phrase... DON'T
ASK DUMB QUESTIONS. I would go back and tell myself the following:
These questions simply aren't valid. And they lead to self-doubt
and in essence, discourage you from sharing the gospel. Of course you're
inspired! You have been given the gift of the Holy Ghost and He is your
constant companion. If you truly believe that you are an instrument in
the hands of God and the Holy Ghost will help you know what to say. You WILL
BE inspired and guided as you try to share the gospel. That is a
promise.
There is no right way to share the gospel... If you have only the
needs of the individual you're sharing the gospel with in mind, you'll
never go wrong.
Are they ready? Well, ALL people are ready to
hear what you have to say... Are they ready to accept the gospel? Maybe
not. But they ARE ready to have some sort of interaction with you
regardless.
"Do they like me?" is not a valid question because it frankly
doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if they like you, it only matters if
you love them. If you're thinking about whether they like you or not
then you're thinking about you. Forget yourself and go to work. :) So
back to my first point, Sister Franklin, avoid the "dumb" questions and
ask yourself "What can I do to help?" "What have I done to strengthen
their faith?" or "Who could use a prayer, a visit or even a plate of
cookies" today. You'll waste a lot less time and feel a whole lot better
if you ask yourself questions like that.
Good to remind my greenie-self of some good lessons I've learned. Haha.
6.) Missions are an opportunity to change our lives and work toward becoming the best versions of ourselves we can be. Ether 12:27.
If we submit our will to the Lord He will change us into someone far
better than we could ever become on our own. Weak things will be made
strong unto us.
When I finally just let go and realized this wasn't about me I saw
myself becoming a little more patient, a little more capable, a lot more
kindhearted and a whole lot more humble. It's been great to realize
that I'm really not all-that-and-a-bag-of-chips. Haha. The Lord is the
awesome one.
7.) Thanks to Elder Bednar's The Character of Christ
and MANY experiences I've had on my mission I know that through the
strength of the Lord natural men and women, like myself can become
saints. It's only through the Atonement of Christ that we can be
exalted. It doesn't matter who you are, where you come from, what
language you speak, how much money you have, or what stage of life you
are in... the atonement will heal you.
8.) Similar to number 6, from my mission president I
have learned that the sooner you let go of your pride the sooner you
enjoy your mission. As soon as I decided that LEARNING was more
important to me than my fear of messing up... I learned ALL kinds of
great things! (Imagine that... what a concept! Haha) "The greatest thing
about making a mistake is that you can try again and do it right
next time" --Pres. Calderwood
9.) NO EFFORT IS WASTED. Yes, "Success" is great I
suppose... but what is SUCCESS, really? The most important thing is not
necessarily that you were "successful"... the important thing is that
you TRIED. Elder Hogge said something to me in my first transfer that
has stuck with me the rest of my mission. And that is, "If you're not failing,
you're not trying." Sometimes you just have to have failures. But hey,
that means you put in some effort. And effort is where success comes in.
10.) Every soul is great in the sight of God. New York
has taught me that it's pretty dang easy to write someone off as "a jerk
who is just angry at the world". But in reality, their salvation is no
less valuable than mine. Everyone deserves to be treated with the
respect, kindness and love, because we are all children of a Heavenly
Father who loves us equally. He sent us to the world to take care of one
another... not judge each other. And you know what, some people don't
realize that. So those of us who do understand this, should take that as
an opportunity to practice what we preach.
I continue to learn things everyday. Yesterday for example:
I
was talking with a sweet couple in our ward. They joined the church in
El Salvador and have since had 2 children marry in the temple and have a
son on a mission! I found out their second oldest daughter served a
mission as well. I didn't actually know they had two
daughters... She came back from her mission in 2010 and was diagnosed
with cancer only months after returning. She died about a year later.
Sister Vasquez explained to me that she couldn't be angry with God...how could she be angry with someone who had given her so much? She said,
"She is His daughter too. And He needed a really great missionary to
come to the other side of the veil. He chose the best there was."
I really needed that experience yesterday.
And so.... 11.) God truly has a plan. Though it may not make a lot of sense to us right now, we'll understand one day. When tragedies happen and when hard times come we can take comfort in the gospel. And in the fact that we have a loving Heavenly Father who has given us so much to be grateful for.
6 months down. 12 to go.
Love you all so much!
Hermana Tara Franklin
Monday, August 19, 2013
Future Missionaries
Aloha! (My companion
is part Hawaiian so that's my little tribute to her...Haha.)
All is good in the
Midhood.
Midwood rocks.
We're having so much
fun out here and things just keep gettin' better and better
everyday!
A story of two
"brothers"....
Kevin was baptized
and confirmed a member of the Church! A wonderful young boy, 10 years old, the
Elders have been working with for the past couple months. Such a sweet kid.
Something that I love
about Kevin is that he has impacted his family for eternity. Because of his
example and his desire to come to church and be taught by the missionaries,
his mom has come back to church after years of inactivity. She's now working
toward getting a temple recommend to go to the temple for the first time. I'm
so excited for this family.
Jeremiah is a recent
convert and he's also 10 years old. One of the smartest kids I've ever met.
Sister Jorgensen and I go and visit him and his grandma, Rosie (Also
a recent convert) every week. Jeremiah struggles. Rosie and her husband
Eddie have to work A LOT. So Jeremiah spends a lot of time
alone, out roaming around and his grandma really worries that he's going
to end up in trouble one day.
We planned a lesson for Rosie and Jeremiah
based off of the visiting teaching message in the Ensign...but when I saw how much
Jeremiah was struggling...I felt very impressed we needed to focus our lesson
on him. I opened the Ensign I was holding straight to the story that President
Monson shared in his Conference address in April. I shared the story about the matches and accidentally starting a fire and he listened the whole time. We then talked to Jeremiah about
how the rules and boundaries that have been set by his grandma are there
to keep him safe. He began to cry and gave Rosie a big hug. He said, "Thank
you for worrying about me. I know you worry because you want me to do my best.
I want to be better."
We all had tears
actually. One of the happiest moments I've experienced on my mission!
I also found out
about Jeremiah's love for drawing...so I brought him a sketchbook the next day.
Every artist needs a sketchbook. :)
Jeremiah came to the
baptism for Kevin on Saturday (the next day) with a "Future
Missionary" tag on his shirt. So awesome.
The greatest thing
about these two boys is that they are missionaries! And they have invited their
families to come unto Christ. "Let no man despise thy youth"!
It doesn't matter how old you are. You CAN make a difference. Jeremiah
and Kevin have impacted my mission and changed my life. I can see
them one day serving as full time missionaries and changing the lives of so
many people. We're all connected
that way. Heavenly Father is in the details of it all!
Hope your week is
full of miracles! Write down 10 things you're grateful for everyday this week.
It sure helps me!
Love you all!
Hermana Tara Franklin
Also, my district
leader, Elder Erickson has gotten me addicted to crossword puzzles...
Never thought I'd see the day. Haha.
This is a picture of
Jeremiah and Kevin!
This is a picture of Kevin and my whole
district. The camera kind of distorted us... I promise I haven't gained that
much weight. I've actually lost like 10 pounds since I left the MTC. But there
you go. Haha.
Monday, August 12, 2013
Never Fear Brooklyn is Here
Hello!
Guess what
everyone...(drum roll, please....)
I'm in Midwood! Brooklyn! Still in the city. I was definitely secretly hoping that would be the case. :)
I'm in Midwood! Brooklyn! Still in the city. I was definitely secretly hoping that would be the case. :)
Things are...DIFFERENT
out here. In all aspects. This area is a lot quieter, dirtier and well...a
lot more Jewish. I've never seen so many Hasidic Jewish people in my life!
The look of all the
architecture is super cool and very "Classic old-time New York City". I love
it.
The Hispanics are
quite scarce out here. Haha. It's been interesting...moving from an area
very heavily populated by Hispanics to an area where you really have to search
for 'em. We're the only Spanish Speaking district in the whole zone.
I now live in a big
apartment complex. Our apartment is right next to the English Sisters...Just
so happens that I get to hang out with THE Sister Blossil and my home girl
Sister Freeze everyday!! I adore them both.
My new companion is
AWESOME. I LOVE HER. Her name is Sister Jorgensen. She's a Hawaiian Bombshell
from Alpine, UT with rockin' style. Get this...I actually kind of new her before
we came out. She went to High School with my best friend Shelby Frampton! Small
Mormon world. We communicated a few times via facebook before I left for the
field...She's one transfer behind me. (Looks like I might end up being the
Senior Comp for the rest of my missionary days. Haha.) I can tell
she's had it a little rough her first two transfers and I know this
companionship was a GREAT change for both of us. Simply awesome. I can't say enough good things about her.
My new ward...Well...It's really struggling. It's nothing like my ward in Queens. We
don't really even have a Bishop right now, there's NO ONE
investigating and more than half our ward is completely inactive and/or
completely forgotten. It's pretty sad. But I KNOW this area has a lot
of potential. President talked a lot about the misconception of
"tough areas". He told us that EVERY area is what YOU
make it. And I truly believe that. I know I can't come in and
expect to transform the ward in just one transfer... but I think Sister
Jorgensen and I together this transfer are going to be able to make a HUGE
difference. I'm so grateful for all I learned about "strengthening the
stakes" in my last ward.
There are a lot of
really solid, super strong members in this ward as well. They've all welcomed
me in with OPEN ARMS. I've never been complimented on my Spanish or on my hair
color so much in my entire life...Haha.
Anyway...We've got
some big plans for this transfer. And I couldn't be more excited about it.
Just FYI... I live
really close to Prospect Park. If you want to get an idea of what kind of area
I live in Google Prospect Park. It's GORGEOUS. Queen's parks are a total dump
compared to Brooklyn's. Haha.
Love you all! Stay
tuned for more pictures and fun stuff next week!
Hermana Tara Franklin
Back in Astoria with Hermana Laney
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